How to Be a Good Ally
Here at UUMC we want to create a welcoming environment for everyone. And part of that is being a good ally to those in the LGBTQIA+ community. Here people can find a variety of resources to help them on their journey as an ally.
Learning Resources
TERMINOLOGY
Lifelong allies and those just starting their journey will sometimes stumble upon words they haven’t heard before, or used in a different context. One great resource for unfamiliar words is this lexicon of some of the most common terms.
GENDER PRESENTATION
Gender is a multi-faceted idea, from presentation to identity. Here are a couple resources to help you understand the different aspects of gender.
PRONOUNS
Using the correct pronouns is a great way to respect people’s choices and make them feel comfortable. To learn more about what pronouns are and how to use them correctly, consider these resources:
Elevate Your Allyship
LIVED EXPERIENCE
A great way to elevate your allyship is to follow members of the LQBTQIA community and queer organizations on your social media platforms. Listen to their reels, consume their content, and synthesize a different way of experiencing the world.
Some suggestions on instagram include:
@genderfenderbender
@alokvmenon
@thejeffreymarsh
@outyouth