Teresa’s Note: July 26, 2024

Teresa's Note - July 26, 2024

Dear friends and members of University UMC:


I hope your summer is going well. I am away this week and am so grateful for Jan Reed, who is sharing this week’s Friday Article. As many of you know, Jan is a long-time member and former staff member here at University UMC. She is a committed and passionate practitioner and teacher of Centering Prayer. As defined by Contemplative Outreach, “Centering Prayer is a receptive method of Christian silent prayer which deepens our relationship with God, the indwelling Presence….a prayer in which we can experience God’s presence within us, closer than breathing, closer than thinking, closer than consciousness itself.” These are good days to stay centered and grounded in God’s love!


As you read Jan’s article, you’ll be inspired to see her devotion not only to the practice of Centering Prayer but also her delight in teaching our young people. Towards the end of this article, you’ll also find the Centering Prayer application for your electronic device used by many persons who practice Centering Prayer. 


What a joy to be your pastor!

Teresa

Teaching Children Centering Prayer

by Jan Reed


At University United Methodist Church in Austin, for the last nine years, I have been teaching Centering Prayer at Vacation Church Camp for children, ages 4 – 11.  Although the idea may sound extremely daunting, I have developed an approach and curriculum that has been very effective.  Here is my approach:

about 1.5 feet tall, covered with a cloth.  In the center is a white pillar candle (Christ candle) with four small votive candles surrounding it.  There should be a chair for the teacher and a place for the singing bowl next to the chair. (If you don’t have a singing bowl, you can always use the Centering Prayer app) The room should be moderately dark when you turn the lights off.  If necessary, you may want to cover some windows with paper, as well as other distractions, like shelves with books or toys.

Create Ritual – Children respond very well to ritual and a sense of sacredness. It really sets the stage for silence.  So, when the children arrive, they take their shoes off in the hallway and line up at the door.  They must be silent before they can enter the room.  I begin playing Gregorian chants on my iPad and they may enter when they are quiet and hear the music. The lights are off and the candles are lit on the altar.  I have the children enter single-file and go all the way around the rug until everyone is encircling the altar, then they sit.  Once they are seated, I stop the music and begin the lesson.  They leave the room in a similar fashion.


Lessons — I use these two books for these lessons, reading a short passage each day: Journey to the Heart:  Centering Prayer for Children by Frank X. Jelenek and Moody Cow Meditates by Kerry Lee MacLean.  I start with the first book which explains what Centering Prayer is and what the guidelines are.  On the first day, we select a sacred word.  Each 15-minute session includes a short reading from one of the books and some discussion.


Graphics & Interaction – I use a variety of pictures that illustrate some aspect of the principals of Centering Prayer (including images for sacred words) and we discuss. We practice listening to the singing bowl and raising our hands when we can’t hear the sound anymore, looking at a mindfulness jar before and after our sit to see the difference, etc.  I also demonstrate myself pretending to do Centering Prayer with my eyes closed and saying my thoughts out loud, saying my sacred word when I catch myself engaging in thoughts.

and chants playing, walking in silence.  When they get to the door, they blow out their candles and drop them in a basket.


Of course, this will not turn children into little monks, but it will teach them that God is always with them and they can meet God in the silence, where they can let go of any negative emotions and transition to a calm place, allowing them to think more clearly about the daily dilemmas they may encounter.

“The way of pure faith is to persevere in contemplative practice without worrying about where we are on the journey, and without comparing ourselves with others or judging others’ gifts as better than ours. We can be spared all this nonsense if we surrender ourselves to the divine action, whatever the psychological content of our prayer may be. In pure faith, the results are often hidden even from those who are growing the most…The divine light of faith is totally available in the degree that we consent and surrender ourselves to its presence and action within.”

- Thomas Keating

You who Birth the Future: In your promises, I am instructed to fear not the shadows of the future, but to listen for your voice through the valleys of darkness. Show me the path to life and the way to fullness of joy. Remind me in prayer that your Word casts no shadows for it is the light of the world, which includes me. Amen.

– Peter Traben Haas

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