Teresa’s Note: September 15, 2023

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Dear friends and members of University UMC:


Writing these Friday notes is a simple way to stay connected to you each week, and I hope your weekend is off to a good start. This morning, as I write, I’m sitting outside and guess what? - it’s raining! I am grateful for the rain. The constant 100+ degree weather was relentless, and seeing temperatures in the 80s and even 70s is a dream. Wherever you happen to be this weekend and whatever your plans are, I pray the slight shift in weather brings you a sense of energy and joy.


Among other things on my to-do list this weekend, I’ll be catching up by FaceTime with a friend from college. Other than a couple of Facebook messages, we haven’t connected in over a year.


In my sermon last week, I talked about how Jesus at times lifts up the gap between what we say we believe and how we live our actual lives. I went on to mention that one example in my own life is saying I care about my relationships with friends, yet I rarely prioritize time with them. It seems a great challenge given how full life is and the reality that a few of my closest friends live out of state.


The importance of friendships has been on my mind more and more lately. Perhaps it’s turning 50 this summer. Birthdays are invitations to ask the ‘how do I want to spend my wild and precious life’ question. More time with my friends is part of my answer. Perhaps it is also the long list of articles I’ve seen in the last few years on friendship. Mostly the articles are less than uplifting as they point to the difficulty people have in making new friends and keeping up with old ones.


I am grateful for our community here called University UMC. For some people, church is a place where you can make friends and be a friend. I pray that is so for you. And if you’ve been thinking about reaching out to a friend you haven’t seen in a while, I encourage you to do so.


I leave you with a few quotes and prayers I came across this week. One is a quote by poet Padraig o’Tuama on belonging and friendship. And as we continue to pray the news, there are two prayers written by United Church of Christ pastor Maren Tirabassi - one is for the people of Morocco following the earthquake, and one is for the people of Libya following the floods.


What a joy to be your pastor!

Teresa

We need stories of belonging that move us towards each other, not from each other; ways of being human that open up the possibilities of being alive together; ways of navigating our differences that deepen our curiosity, that deepen our friendship, that deepen our capacity to disagree, that deepen the argument of being alive. This is what we need. This is what will save us. This is the work of peace. This is the work of imagination.

- Padraig o’tuama

Holy friendships deeply form who we are, span across distances and divides, deepen over the years as we change, and show the Holy Spirit at work.

- Rev. Lisa Greenwood,
CEO and President of Texas Methodist Foundation

This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is doing, but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father. You did not choose me, but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. I am giving you these commands so that you may love one another.

- John 15:12-17

Prayer for the People of Libya

by Maren Tirabassi


Holy One, we pray for Libya
in the midst of Storm Daniel's flooding,


this medicane, this time of fear.

For those who grieve 
two thousand confirmed dead, we pray.

For those worry and those who search 
for ten thousand missing, we pray.

For those who must respond 
to the collapsing of two bridges, we pray.

For the great fragility 
of the town of Derna, we pray.

For all who must rebuild 
home and business and family, we pray.

For fear in children who cannot sleep,
for emptiness of those 
who may never find their beloveds, 
for the loss of small precious things –
a photograph, a gift passed down
 from grandparents now gone, 
for education suspended, 
for illnesses untended during the crisis,


we pray, hearts open wide
 to all the unexpected tragedies.

For the stretched-thin work of Red Crescent
 and all who support it, we pray.


For peace between political opponents
working together in this disaster, we pray ,
in all your holy names, Amen.

Prayer for the People of Morocco

by Maren Tirabassi


O God, The All-Merciful, The Wakeful One,
 The Compassionate, 

we pray for Morocco, 
in the wake of the earthquake

 
in the midst of  damage and sorrow
 that follows this terrible night.

We pray for those who grieve 
more than eight hundred dead,


and those who fear for the missing. 


We pray for those in hospitals
 

and for rescue workers 
still searching among the rubble.

We pray for historic Marrakech
 and the beautiful red walls 
cracked and endangered,


for Rabat the capital and tiny Asni, 
and for all in the Atlas Mountains.


We pray for all who fear
 the after shocks, 
and have nowhere to sleep.

For earthquakes have no names, 
but you are The Giver of Peace. Amen.

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