Teresa’s Note: January 5, 2024

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Dear friends and members of University UMC:


In these final days of the Christmas season, I remember fondly scenes of gift-giving both from recent days and days long ago. I still enjoy receiving a good gift. Who doesn’t?! But as I’ve grown older, I’ve come to enjoy giving gifts more than receiving them. This Sunday, we celebrate Epiphany and remember the lesson from Matthew 2 when Magi traveled with gifts for the Christ child.


There’s another Christmas story involving gift-giving I remember at this time of the year. It’s called “The Gift of the Magi,” written by O. Henry in the early 1900’s. A husband and wife, Jim and Della, are just starting out in life together. They are very much in love, and they are very poor. Near Christmas, they want to give gifts worthy of how they feel for one another, but they don’t have the money. Della’s one possession of worth is her long, beautiful hair which she sells so that she can purchase a precious chain for Jim’s gold watch. Jim’s one possession of worth is his gold watch which he sells so he can purchase beautiful tortoise shell combs for Della’s hair. At the end of the story, it says about the wise men, “Being wise, their gifts were no doubt wise ones, possibly bearing the privilege of exchange in case of duplication. And here I have related to you the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a run-down apartment who more unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. But in a last word to the wise of these days, let it be said that of all who give gifts these two were the wisest.” Why were these two the wisest? I think the author believes their wisdom rested in the sacrificial love they offered to one another. One might well argue instead that the two young lovers were foolish with their money. But I choose to believe their love was a holy kind of love. An extravagant kind of sacrificial love causing them to risk everything and give for the sake of love.


As we recall the Magi who traveled with their gifts for the Christ child, I’m grateful for the gifts you continue to offer. Over 140 of you pledged during our Fall Stewardship season to consistently give to the ongoing work of Christ here at UUMC. During Advent, we collected dozens of handmade blankets that have been distributed to local hospitals for use in their Neonatal Intensive Care Units. And this Sunday, we collect coats, jackets, blankets, and other cold-weather items for our Fig Leaf clothes closet to keep Saturday guests at Open Door warm. Thank you for your generosity! Below is a poem from the creative writers at A Sanctified Art about the journey of the Magi, followed by a delightful Blessing for a New Year by the always clever and compassionate Nadia Bolz-Weber


What a joy to be your pastor!

Teresa

I Imagine

by Sarah Are


I imagine they packed bags— 

Water and food, blankets and clothes.  

I imagine they packed tools— 

Maps and telescopes that could bring the stars closer, 

As if the sky was a comforter they could pull near.  

I imagine they hugged loved ones and said,  

“We’ll be back soon.”  

And when loved ones said, 

“Don’t leave,” 

“It’s risky,” 

“You don’t even know what you’re chasing,” 

I imagine they put lips to foreheads and said,  

“There is a light in the darkness. I must chase that.” 

And then I imagine they walked.  

I imagine they walked until legs were tired and knees gave out.  Maybe they told stories on the road and laughed into open sky,  Or maybe they sat in silence and prayed for more light.  

However the road unfolded, I imagine it was not easy.  

I imagine all of this, not because I’ve chased stars,  

But because I have dreamed.  

And these dreams for justice make the Magi’s story my own.  For every time we fight for justice,  

We start in the dark.  

We hug loved ones and say,  

“There’s a light in the darkness, I must chase that.”  

We walk until we’re tired,  

And then we keep walking.  

We laugh at the open sky as a form of resistance.  

We pray in the night for signs of more light.  

And no matter how important the journey is,  

And no matter how much progress we make,  

The journey to justice is never easy.  

And so I pray,  

That maybe one day,  

We will be like the Magi,  

And will walk ourselves into the light.  

Until then, don’t forget—  

There’s a light in the darkness. We must chase that.  

A New Year’s Blessing for Realists

by Nadia Bolz-Weber


As you enter this new year, as you pack away the Christmas decorations and get out your stretchy pants,


as you face the onslaught of false promises offered you through new disciplines and elimination diets,


as you grasp for control of yourself and your life and this chaotic world


May you remember that there is no resolution that, if kept, will make you more worthy of love.


There is no resolution that, if kept, will make life less uncertain and allow you to control your aging parents and your teenage children and the way other people act.  


So this year (as every year),


May you just skip the part where you resolve to be better, do better and look better this time.


Instead, may you give yourself the gift of really, really low expectations. Not out of resignation, but out of generosity.


May you expect so little of yourself that you can be super proud of the smallest of accomplishments.


May you expect so little of the people in your life that you actually notice and cherish every small, lovely thing about them. 


May you expect so little of the service industry that you notice more of what you do get and less of what you don't and then just tip really well anyhow.


May you expect to get so little out of 2024 that you can celebrate every single thing it offers you, however small.

Because you deserve joy and not disappointment.


So, I wish you a Happy as possible New Year.


Love, Nadia.

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